Hello to you,
Just got back from Santa Barbara, what a rad little town they have going there.
Bummed I didn’t get to see the nightlife but ahhh well.
I want to discuss something very important to me right now. Ripping the lid off your core man inside.
A lot of people watch programs about being a natural that are like 6 hours long with all sorts of
attitude adjustments and subtleties, but what they remember is ‘Approach by being yourself, without canned lines’.
They try it and it doesn’t work right away, and then they get confused.
This is because they’re understanding natural game IN REACTION to canned game,
and looking at WHAT NATURAL GAME IS NOT rather than looking at WHAT IT IS.
To make being a natural work, it’s not just about approaching with small talk, but with the lid off your core.
Say you get a Flawless Natural opener, like “Hey there, I’m Barry”.
You get all pumped up (WOOO!), run over to the girl and deliver.
She blows it off initially - so you go to the next girl, and the next, and the next.
Whoa all these blowouts. I guess Natural Game does not work.
Lets drill down to the core:
When you see a honey, what is the VERY first thing that comes to your mind?
- Ohhhhhh yum
- She looks AWESOME
- I would love to…
- Damn she is FINE
Or something like that. There is a split MILLISECOND when you lay your eyes on a girl
that your TRUE MANLY CORE talks to you. He gives you the right direction.
Now what happens after that first millisecond (most of the time)?
The mind of doom kicks in:
- Your not good enough
- What line should you use?
- Is your hair done good tonight?
List goes on…
But that first MILLISECOND where your core opens up (the DAMN SHE IS HOT) is where the power lies. The core tells you to ENJOY a girl. To go up FREE from petty restraints such as exactly what to say.
Sometimes I will blurt out things on my mind that have NOTHING to do with what we are talking about… that’s the lid off the core.
Opening girls with dumb stuff or general things that are going on in your world RIGHT NOW… that’s the lid of the core.
When the girl isnt acting favourable and you DONT CARE and just KEEP GOING because your are there not for her but as a CELEBRATION OF YOU… that’s the lid off the core.
With the lid off your core, you ride an awesome WAVE of you.
When you talk and act purely for your own enjoyment (but also to invite other people into your awesome world) you are coming from your core.
So when you go up and try this flawless natural style… go and FULLY put yourself out there. Instead of worrying about a girl opening up… OPEN YOURSELF UP.
The examples and material that you see on my blog are simply Tim with the lid off his core.
Take the lid off the core and let yourself ENJOY.