design your dream girly
I was in a bookstore yesterday and started up a conversation with a cute girl who turns out to be in graphic design. We happened to be in the design section of the store… she told me she liked to buy a new book on design every week. I asked her if it was to study.
Her reply was “Haha no - maybe ill find something to make my life more ‘designer’ ” It got me thinking.
In this day and age everything is niche/designer/unique. I’m fascinated at how we can apply this to our own LIFE and make us more attractive in general.
Soooooooo…. Let’s make you DESIGNER!
So WHY you would want to be DESIGNER?
Whether you know it consciously or not - Your brain makes mental snapshots of people you meet all the time.
It’s like a mental business card rolodex, stored in your mind, that carries around all the details of the people you have ever met including your friends, family, associates and randoms. You refer to this mental card whenever talking about that person or whenever you think about anyone for whatever reason. If we were to think of that business card as an actual physical tangible card - what would your, say, best friends look like?
1. Would it be dull and boring with a simple chodey font and simple title like ‘Bob Davey - Computer Consultant’?
2. Or would it be exciting with bright colours and unique design with bubble writing ‘Bobby D - Fly Computer Guy’?
what colour are you?
Think about the MENTAL images that are conjured up whenever you think of number 1 card versus number 2.
It’s still THE SAME GUY; however number 2 is a hell of a lot more attractive. What does other mental snapshot cards of other people you know look like? We are all individually unique in many different ways. Think about when you get to know someone over a long, frequent period of time.
You have a long time to build their mental card in your mind and you usually are more drawn to that person because you know them on a deeper level.What if you could fast track that deeper-knowing feeling in another person when meeting them in less than 5 minutes, so that their mental card of YOU is full of FUN and EXCITING characteristics that they can love and talk about with other people? That’s exactly what we want to do - especially with women.
The cool thing is - you can literally take whatever situation/job/status you are in and make it more ‘Designer’ and in turn be massively more attractive to women and all people in general.Here is a fun experiment on how you could implement this:
switch on that creative mind of yours
1. DESIGN YOUR MENTAL BUSINESS CARD
Write down the attributes that you want other people to have in their mind of YOUR CARD. Stuff like exciting, adventurous, spontaneous, charismatic, fun, alluring… It is very important to realise that It doesn’t matter if you are NOT these things NOW. This is the whole point - you are now putting yourself on TURBO and brining out these things that you ARE deep down. These are the exact things that people will think of when they think of you.
2. ACTUALLY MAKE YOUR PHYSICAL CARD
Look at graphic design books such as this one (I bought this the same day as I talked to that girl)
**AMAZON.com - More Ways of Saying Hello**
Pick the colours, fonts and designs that get YOU excited and your juices flowing… Get creative IT IS GOOD FOR YOU. When excercising the creative part of your brain you are helping to ignite the same part that comes up with random stories, etc.
3. GET IT PRODUCED
Keep a few on you at all times to remind yourself WHO YOU ARE (fun, exciting, etc), and give it to girls as well as everyone you meet.
4. BE CONGRUENT
Every decision you make in your life should be 100% congruent to those attractive attributes you created on your card. This is YOU and YOUR LIFE. Get EXCITED and make it THRILLING! For example - you go to buy new clothes, get a haircut or simply find a cool club to go to. You must do the stuff congruent to your card and its attributes!
You are simply using these things as tools of expressing and enjoying yourself. Take my NaturalTim.com blog for example - look at the cool design and colours. Its a part of me and my card! You could get a blog and do the same!
Have fun with this process… you are designing YOU. The coolest most worthy person you could ever design. You will find that once you do this process, your identity will naturally become that of a charismatic naturally attractive man (if that’s what you design!).
The whole point is so that girls can talk about you and get excited about you because you are giving them an awesome mental snapshot of WHO YOU ARE. This is part of ‘your world as an ecosystem that generates women’ concept that is contained in the Natural Tim program.
Good luck and email any of your designs to email@example.com - ill post a few of them on my blog
Oh and btw while you are in the bookstore looking at designs - talk to a girl. You may just enjoy the chat.