Archive for July, 2008

Tim World Tour ‘08

Here is my upcoming schedule for the rest of this year.

Looking forward to meeting all of you!

Please check to see if you can make it to any of these:

Note: Workshops are FREE presentations from myself in the designated city.

CLICK HERE for booking info

 

 
July 25-27: Los Angeles Bootcamp
 
July 31st: Amsterdam Workshop
 
August 1-3: Amsterdam Bootcamp
 
August 5: Stockholm Workshop
 
August 7: London Workshop
 
August 16: Vancouver Workshop
 
August 17: Seattle Workshop
 
August 22-24: Los Angeles Bootcamp
 
August 29-31: Los Angeles Bootcamp
 
September 4-6: Los Angeles Bootcamp
 
September 19-21: Los Angeles Bootcamp
 
September 23: Denver Workshop
 
September 25: Chicago Workshop
 
September 26-28: Chicago Bootcamp
 
October 2-4: Los Angeles Bootcamp
 
October 9-11: Los Angeles Bootcamp
 
October 28: Adelaide Workshop
 
October 30: Perth Workshop
 
November 1: Sydney Workshop
 
November 2: Gold Coast Workshop
 
November 4: Auckland Workshop
 
November 12: Munich Workshop
 
November 13: Zurich Workshop
 
November 14-16: Amsterdam Bootcamp
 
November 18: Gothenburg Workshop
 
November 20: Oslo Workshop
 
November 21-23: Stockholm Bootcamp
 
November 25: Edinburgh Workshop
 
November 26: Dublin Workshop
 
November 27-29: Dublin Bootcamp
 
December 5-7: Tokyo Bootcamp   CLICK HERE for booking info

I am attacking this like Lonadis. Spartans. Be ready.

nT

PS. If anyone is a nightclub promoter and wants me to DJ in any of these locations at these times please email tim@realsocialdynamics.com

getting more advanced

Hello how are you today!?

I am inspired. Each and every time I log on to RSDnation or my video blog I realize that we are surrounded by some really talented and smart people who are good at picking up women.

The wealth of knowledge that we all bring to the table is moving the world forward in a great way. Girls are happy and so are we! Today I want to talk about something a little more advanced: Talking Congruently.

Have you ever been talking to a girl and been thinking “wtf!? this girl is being a bitch for the sake of it” or “what the hell is this girl talking about” or “damn this girl is being so cold for NO REASON”…

Now let me ask you: how many times have you actually called the girl out on it? Let me illustrate answering a question over at RSDnation

Quote:

Originally Posted by RichBristol View Post

Hey mate,I’d love to know more about how you turn around uber-bitchy responses - like, the eastern-european ice-queen, the L.A. turbo who dismisses every guy instantly, etc…what sort of things will you do and what vibe do you have to plow through and turn it round?Thanks man!

Rich! when this happens to me… something inside me says “wtf! I am being cool and she is being a shithead”…

It’s that ’something inside me’ that is the answer. You see, if you are communicating absolutely congruently and from the CORE YOU, then you would have no problems saying to a girl “What the hell is your problem? geeeez! lighten up girly”

I have told girls to shut the fuck up before, when to the CORE felt they needed it.The feminine is always going to test the masculine CORE. So I just see it as an opportunity to get on top of that FAST.

You are an advanced guy… a money guy for that matter - start communicating what you REALLY FEEL. Like if she is acting total chode TELL HER. She needs to know that you will call her on her ice queen bullshit.

NOTE: RichBristol is an ADVANCED DUDE who has his SHIT DIALED. I dont want all you n00bs running around telling girls they are a bitch, when you are approaching like a creepy chode yourself…. its up to you to make the call.

good luck man

I am interested in your guys thoughts on this: hit me up with a comment.

Have a WICKED INSPIRED DAY

your nT

the revolution will not be televised - free tim track

I’m up late. Very late.

Have you ever had a song spinning in your head that you just can’t shake?

I was lying in bed thinking of this old school house tune I used to play when learning to DJ…

So the insomnia caused me to make a remix and also share it with you.

Lets call it “Music to make love to your old lady by (at night)”

timothy marc - the revolution will not be televised

click the headphones to download for free

 

 

1. Play.

2. Call the girl over that you have been thinking about.

3. Play again.

 

nT

P.S I know alex is into this chillout late night stuff right now. Might have inspired his latest cool article: check it at www.alexattitude.com

Time to man up!

Hey there,

Have you ever noticed that whenever you have a personal epiphany, it never happens when you are just sitting around watching TV or hanging
at your house. It happens when you are MOVING, WALKING or in the shower or doing something else. Definitely NOT when you sit around waiting for a good idea.

I had an epiphany the other day while on my way to grab a coffee that I thought would be a wicked perspective for you on Natural Game.

Attraction between a man and a woman occurs when there are clear POLAR OPPOSITES.

The two separate poles are MASCULINE and FEMININE.

Now as a dude, to the core, most of us have a masculine tendancy.
However you can also have a bias towards feminine and that’s ok too.

For the purposes of this article I will discuss you as being a MASCULINE male.

What comes into your mind when you think of the word MASCULINE?

Dominant.
Leading.
Aggresive.
Goes after what he wants.
Manly.
Potent.
Logical.
Powerful.
Robust.
Strong.
Vigorous.
Brave.

Ok, so what comes into your mind when you thing of the word FEMININE?

Womanly.
Soft.
Girlish.
Emotional.
Nurturing.

You get the picture.

Now, on a deeper level. A man MUST follow his core PURPOSE.
That is whatever he chooses to be his LIFE CRAFT.

You could be a Lawyer, Dentist, Businessman, Musician, whatever.

My life craft for the last six years has been learning and coaching being successful with woman. My other craft is also a house music DJ.

What is YOUR life craft?

Have YOU looked deep inside and DECIDED that this is my craft?
If not, you may be killing yourself.

The key is YOU decide it - nobody external can decide it for you.
Your parents, friends and family may want a craft for you but ultimately for you to be fulfilled as a man - YOU must choose your craft.

Let me ask you another question:

Are you following your craft with absolute passion and energy?

Look again at some of the words that describe the masculine:

Powerful.
Robust.
Strong.
Vigorous.
Brave…

Do you feel these types of things on a regular basis with your craft?

Now for the important part: How this relates to attracting women.

Look at this diagram:

This attraction circle represents a deeper core level of attraction that a woman will feel for a MAN. A man truley aligned with his craft.

Here is the order:

1. It starts with YOU the MAN focusing SOLEY on your CRAFT.
2. This craft may or may not be VISIBLE to the WOMAN.
(I’ll explain the importance of visibility in a second)
3. The woman focuses on the MAN and can see him firmly rooted in his CRAFT

The key: VISABILITY.

A woman must see you firmly rooted in your craft (yourself).

Does this mean she has to see you at your desk job plugging away?

NO!

There are 2 types of visibility: 1. Physical 2. Implicit.

1. Physical Visability. She actually SEES you at your craft.
Where hopefully you are displaying those MASCULINE properties outlined above.

Examples:

You are speaking at a conference on business.
You are a DJ and are owning the room.
You are a bringing in sales.
You are playing basketball or some sport and doing well.
You are a rockstar.

Notice the socially most attractive crafts have the highest PHYSICAL VISABILITY?

E.g. You are a rockstar. Up there performing your craft in front of thousands.
Pretty damn attractive.

Hold up. I don’t want you all to run out and start learning the guitar just yet.

2. Implicit Visability

Now this one is very potent on a micro level.

When you walk up to a woman, and approach with a certain intensity and tonality, you can INSTANTLY communicate the same vibe as a guy with high visability.

You can actually go up to a girl and say “Hey, I’m Joe” and immediately communicate that you are one of THOSE GUYS.

For example, say Tom Cruise (whatever you think of him) was on an island where nobody knew who he was. Would he walk up to a girl and be all nervous because they don’t know who he is?

No. He would walk over as he would to anyone - assuming they know who he is!

Think about the certain tone of voice, the ease of bodylanguage and communication of all of those masculine traits.

The two things I want you to get out of today’s article are these:

1. Are you living to your craft?

What happens when you take your eyes off your craft and let a woman become your core focus? disaster. I remember when I made a girlfriend my sole purpose and focus back in the day - the result: she cheated on me with a loser.

Pick your craft. Be disciplined. Own it like a man should.

2. How perceptively VISIBLE are you?

When you walk up and talk to a girl does she get the FEELING that you are a sought after/visible guy who can handle himself and his craft?

Hope this stirs some thinking :)

Post up a comment and let me know what YOU think

Cheers

nT

Giving Thanks

An important thankyou:

To all the amazing characters on my blogs, RSDnation and beyond.

To all the students I have ever helped achieve the success and women they ever wanted.

To all the champs that are out there in field getting girls (whether they have seen my stuff or not).

To all the RSD staff who make magic happen.

I just clicked on a comment I recieved recently that I want to share - this is what the Flawless Natural launch tomorrow is all about:

YOU

Jon Says:

“Tim, Great teleseminar today man.

I was thinking about it today and I have studied every article etc on game from “the book” to todays flawless natural seminar.

It wasn’t until RSD that I thought, “Yes! This is it! This is what it’s supposed to be.”I have devoured all RSD material since then and the results have been tremendous. Then suddenly, months later,boom here comes Tim on a mission.

All the nebulous concepts that have been sort of ambiguous in my mind became concrete with the blog and videoblog. Your language and breakdown speak to my learning style and its on.

I recently had success this past weekend and I used Tim style no game. I just was the game. You’re doing a huge thing for us out here who have been studying this for awhile and needed a click. So thanks for that click Tim. Keep going strong and helping us to walk towards the best selves we can be.”

  

Cheers to all of our success in the future!

The past five years have been worth it :)

Enjoy the launch (and the preceeding women generated from it)

your T