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FN Living Plan part III (New Years Special)

So by now you have most likely gone to your hometown parents place for some christmas goodness.

I LOVE the responses to this plan and have a couple of posts already mapped out for the next coming weeks for you but I think that this one here today is my personal favorite.

This is going to be an AMAZING year for you. I know it.

You have been building up the last couple of weeks, from visions to heros, now its time to get specific on women for 2009.

On the flawless natural program (which these blogs are designed to follow) I talk about creating a vision for your ideal woman… Let me elaborate with a recent story that happened to me a couple of days ago.

THE CLICK AND FLOW

(Meeting the girl that connects)

Before setting back to my hometown before christmas I decide to head out with some friends.

We are rolling through laughing and having our normal jolly time.

All of a sudden I hear a “Hey Tim!” behind me… it’s a guy I vaguely know but haven’t seen for a few months. We start talking and I am introduced to his stunning blonde girlfriend. Classy dress. Clearly the most stunning girl in the place in a girl next door way as opposed to the turboslutty type.

Now of course I am totally more focused on my friend, but he eventually gets pulled away by another guy to the bar, leaving me and the girlfriend.

Now here is where it gets tricky to explain.

You see, I have been to a few countries and met a few girls in my past days but every once in a while something happens:

I call it THE CLICK AND FLOW.

It happens when you and a girl CLEARLY MATCH IN EVERY WAY and it happens as soon as you say hello to each other.

It feels like a massive glowing fireball that hits you both in the chest at the same time. You talk like you have known each other since you were born.

You lose track of time. The conversation is effortless and gold flows out of your mouth to the point where it doesn’t even seem like you are in a normal human conversation of words, but something like a glorious energy exchange. A dance where you are not touching each other.

A dance that is not happening physically, but it’s definitely happening.

To everyone else in the bar you look like old friends that haven’t seen each other for years. The truth: you have only known her for six minutes.

The way her mouth moves when she talks, the way she accidently brushes your leg, the way she leans in closer and hangs on your every word, the way she understands everything you say, the way she bows her head to you in silent acknowledgement… but the MOST important thing is she understands from a mere minute of having meeting you… she understands WHO YOU ARE as a man. You two CLICK and FLOW.

So with this understanding she has, it’s like her whole being is shouting at you: “I love you”.

You are the only two in the room that know it.

Can you fake this kind of interaction? No.

What is the Click and Flow?

It is rare but not rare enough to not occur if YOU do the right things.

The click and flow is an accumulation.

Its an accumulation of all the hours spent in the gym and eating healthy.

Of all the social interactions you have had.

Of all the time you have spent on becoming a hero.

Of those nights where everything is quiet and you can dream of the future.

Of those lonely times when maybe you’re out in a garden somewhere or looking at the stars.

Of all the struggles and challenges that you have overcome in your world.

Most of all its the time when you snap to a point in time and she can see all of that accumulated.

In the way you walk. The way you talk. The way you smile. The quiet confidence in something as small as a sip from your drink.

She knows instantly. She wants you sexually, mentally, emotionally.

So part III of the FN Program is different to a bunch of new years resolutions that don’t work.

 

It’s going to be simple: Put your 2009 order in now.

 

A good friend of mine once told me: DEFINE YOURSELF BEFORE SOMEONE DEFINES YOU

I would also like you to think of defining your woman before she defines you.

 

Part 1:

What girl would you like to have the CLICK and FLOW with?

How will it happen?

Where will you be?

How will you be carrying yourself?

Here is what you do… go back to the thread you did on RSDnation.com and post the answer to the above questions.

A short paragraph on YOUR 2009 CLICK AND FLOW experience. How it will go down. Details, details, details.

Really FEEL IT as you write it.

 

Part 2:

Define YOU.

What are YOU going to look like in 2009.

When that girl talks to you for the first time what is she going to FEEL?

What does she INSTANTLY love about you?

 

Next week we are going to have a FIELD MISSION relating to this :)

Getting excited yet?

 

I wish only one thing for you in 2009… even if it only happens ONCE.

 

I want you to have a CLICK and FLOW with an amazing woman.

Happy new year - 2009 is the year for you.

 

Much love.

 

nT

 

PS. So me and the girl parted ways after a massive close hug and kiss that was almost a bit too long and suspicious for the boyfriend. I got the hell out of there. There are many more click and flow moments to be had in ‘09 than to get into a drama with a friends girl. Call it game-maturity.

Official Flawless Natural Living Plan (Part II)

How to think like a hero and therefore become a hero.

Welcome to part II of the official Flawless Natural living plan.

Be prepared for some more awesome lifestyle deluxe makeover action!

Now, how has your week been?

I have read through all your guys comments and really love that you are with me on this.
You see, I am actually going through all this personally myself.
This is exactly how I spend my days.

So I take it that you are doing your nightly “vision living”, eating healthy and working out so that your brain/body has the necessary fuel and energy to actually think great thoughts and do great things.

I am only writing this article to you.

Well, let’s get on with the show: YOUR SHOW.

Chances are that if you are reading this you are a man. Which I must say from personal experience, is pretty damn cool in itself.

You have all these physical and mental resources that are available to you. If you choose to unlock them.
The point of unlocking this powerful man is so that you can live an exciting, happy and charged life.
Not for anyone else, but for YOU.

So just HOW can a man do this?

Simple. You must be a HERO.

When I was growing up and very young I was fascinated with super heroes. Batman was my personal favorite. I would run around our backyard jumping off things pretending I was Batman. I remember being so into this I started telling the kids at school that I WAS actually batman. I said it with such conviction that a small group actually BELIEVED me.

Since then I guess I have found my own way to be a superhero and I believe it is EVERY man on this planets
duty to become their own HERO.

THE HERO’S CREED
(how a hero works)

1. A hero needs something to fight for.

A hero has a SINGLE VISION. AN IDEA. A PURPOSE. This idea is what he stands for, what he values most and the area of his life he is dedicated to being the best at. This is unshakable.

A hero would rather die going after his vision than to live and not try at all.

Point: Have you ever noticed some men are dead inside? they have a glazed over look in their eye?

This means that his vision/lifestyle are misaligned.

2. A hero is always in control

You know when a hero has walked into the room. He is what you would call extremely PRESENT.
You feel him in the room and girls are more hyper-tuned to pick up on him than men.
If you want to generate super crazy attraction in a woman (without visibly doing anything) then this is it.

How did he get this way?

He is not trying to ESCAPE.

This is HUGE.

In today’s society, with marketing being at such potent subliminal levels, we think that we are in control
of our lives when the truth is we are not. The world barrages our mind with so much external stuff that pulls us in all sorts of different directions.

Im sure there is something in your mind right now, that you feel that if you had this ONE thing - that all would be good and you can be happy and ok.

Here are some of the things your mind may play games with you:
“when I get my university degree”. “When I learn to get chicks”. “When I have a million dollars”.
“When I get that super cool T-shirt i saw”. “When I finally get my body in shape”.

These are just examples of your mind escaping the present moment. Telling yourself that you need these things LATER in order to feel like a HERO NOW.

Truth is, these are all EXTERNAL and have NOTHING TO DO WITH BEING A HERO.

These are forms of MENTAL ESCAPISM. TV is an escape. Eating junk food is an escape. Having sex with a random bar-whore can (sometimes) be an escape.

An escape from the HERO’s TRUE PATH.

You can actually be a hero NOW if you do something that gets you on your path.
Maybe it’s going to the supermarket and getting a car load of vegetables and fruits.
Maybe it’s doing some research on something that really MOVES YOUR SOUL.

The true path that should be revealed to you every night before your sleep - when you are living your vision.

You see - a hero never needs to escape. He knows he is doing EVERYTHING HE CAN to get to his vision.

For example, How do you feel for the rest of the day when you have hit up a healthy meal and the gym in the morning?
AWESOME. You walk around KNOWING that you are doing everything you can.

Here is a part of my own personal journal:

“I sat and ate a meal in front of the TV today. It was off.

I slowed down. Chewed all my food. Heard birds chirping outside.
This was a much better sound. A much more entertaining meal.
It was a very healthy meal too.
Raw vegetable salad. Brown Rice. Lean Chicken.

This felt like the most awesome 20mins I have ever had in my entire life”

So a hero is always in control, because he knows that when he makes a decision it is almost never
a form of ESCAPE and almost always something that will benefit his vision.

Still not getting it?

Watch this entire video before continuing on:

At 6:20ish he tells you his heroic vision. Look at the pleasure in his face.
This guy is a hero. Look at the way he is talking. Look at his face. Look at how he is living his vision.
I dream that one day I look like him at my age. You understand I am not talking PHYSICALLY looking like him.
Look at his face. His unmovable passion.

On a side note this guy has made me listen to Chopin every day and its upped the quality of my life instantly.

SO WHAT DO YOU DO NOW?

Ok so here is this week’s exercise, to stack on top of last week’s.

1. Why are you a hero?

You need to choose something to fight for. How? What is ONE thing that you have a deep unmovable desire to be number 1 in the world at? Not number 2. You might as well go for number 1 or there is no point living. What do you want to be the best at? If you could choose one thing what would it be?

2. Go to www.rsdnation.com and If you do not have an account: get one.

I want you to start your own thread in the main section titled: MY FLAWLESS NATURAL LIVING PLAN

Post your heroic vision. What you wish to be number one at.

When you post it there you are confirming it to ME, your RSD peers and YOURSELF that you are committed
to being a hero.

3. For this week you will keep a LOG of the things that you did EVERY DAY for 7 days that was aligned with
your quest to be number one. Post this under your thread on RSDnation.

E.g Say one night you are doing your “vision ritual” and you get a great idea - go and write it. Post it.
or say you smash it in the gym on a particular day - post it.
Be committed to it.

I can see everyone on RSDnation supporting each other on this.

The new year is starting soon and christmas is a couple of days away - give yourself the gift of being your own superhero.

Merry Christmas - See you for part III next monday

T

The official ‘Flawless Natural Living Plan’ (part 1)

 

Well hello there,

Another lovely Monday has rolled around and that means its another post from the world of T. 

You will really enjoy this weeks installation, it is something extremely personal. I took a chance to browse through the many emails and requests and pulled out a couple of questions that you might be interested to find out some of the secret behind the scene stuff that goes on.

I have recieved a number of emails that are asking me to go into details of my personal life and routine. So I am going to give you the complete picture on a week in the life of Tim and how YOU can live amazingly too.

You see, what you actually do with your days, how you think and interact with your world is one of the core principles of being a flawless natural. Ultimately its this that will make you have the x-factor that women desire.

So this is the first in the series on how to live like a flawless natural.

Just to kick this off, one person who emailed me wanted to know more about what I do in my spare time, ending the email with “(I’m) just interested to know more about Tim: the regular guy!”.

First of all, I believe it is VERY dangerous to consider yourself a regular guy.

I tried it for a while. It doesn’t work. It doesn’t make you happy at all.

When you were a kid I am sure that you thought you were destined for greatness.

There was something inside of you that told you “You will do something amazing”.

 

Everyone I have ever spoken to confirms this.

 

Then what happens? Somewhere along the line you fall into regular guy mode.

You watch TV and get ideas of what a guy should look like and the things he should be doing.

You follow the advice of your peers and parents on the direction of your life, aiming to please them.

Thinking “once I do this job or that course I will be happy, and others will be too”.

You think “why should I deserve all the things I desire deep down anyway?”.

You think “there are much smarter, more attractive, intelligent, cooler people out there”.

You start to create your role in society as something mediocre all the while pushing away that pure voice that is inside, the voice that you used to hear in your head when you were a kid.

You tell yourself there is no point in going to all this effort to reach my physical, mental and emotional potential because you will probably not achieve it anyway.

You might immerse yourself in spirituality and other non-earthly things as a means of escapism from what is glaring you in the face.

 

Can you relate to any of this?

 

How do I know all of that?

 

Because I have battled with all of those headspaces too. Hell, when I told my father that I was going to fly to Los Angeles and start teaching men to be successful with women, he said “What?! No! This isn’t some fag thing is it?”.

To this day he still tells me to go back to corporate life. Also judging by my track record and the trouble I have been in for bringing too many girls into the house I don’t think he remotely believes I am homosexual either. 

By the way I still think corporate life is really great for a lot of men, if they have looked into their soul and confirmed that this is what they really want.

 

Anyway back to the point.

 

You see, one day I realized that you will always find somebody that is smarter, more attractive, cooler, more intelligent than you. To focus on this, and other people and what they have, is very destructive to your soul.

Armed with this knowledge six years ago I decided to lie down late at night, put some deep chillout music on, and come up with an elaborate fantasy life for my future.

I really lived it. I looked at the things I wanted. I imagined myself in New York and traveling all over the place. It moved my soul. It made me feel amazing. Something deep inside went “yes, this is for you”.

Now to a young kid in a small country town in Australia, to have such thoughts and ambition is totally absurd.

 

Maybe you are in the same situation?

 

Moving along…

The most difficult (yet strangely easy) question you will ever answer:

What does your soul want for you?

Late at night. When everything is quiet and you are not asleep, what does your soul tell you?

Somewhere in there, is that same voice you had when you were a kid. It is there. If you cannot hear it you are caught up in a haze.

Everyone’s soul is different and living the vision it has for you is what it definitely means to be a flawless natural.

Tips for getting back in touch with the soul (step 1):

1. Absolutely maintain the best physical shape you possibly can. That means as guys, its 4 days a week in the gym or running or some form of hard physical exertion. It also means eating a super balanced and nutritious diet.

This is NO JOKE. Your soul cannot communicate to your mind if all you do is eat and live in MUCK.

When you are eating well and working out regularly there are no excuses to give yourself.

You are doing the best you possibly can. Therefore you will have massive self respect, not to mention massive energy and looking healthy. 

Self-respect and the soul go hand in hand.

The physical is the base for everything else. Handle this FIRST.

If you do not have a gym membership or eat rubbish get this handled TOMORROW.

You must do 4 days a week physical excercise and eat healthy EVERY DAY.

NOTE: Your mind will rationalize away trying to do this. Don’t let it. Just GO!

 

2. Implement a nightly and morning soul-ritual.

Just before you go to sleep, put on some downtempo chillout or classical music. Then close your eyes and LIVE in a world you want to live. Where you are totally owning it and doing the things you have always wanted. Do the same in the morning, dedicate 20 minutes before breakfast to looking at your visionboard.

When pondering things or adding stuff to your visionboard make sure it really MOVES you.

Like you get a rush of excitement as you think of the potential and possibility.

It must EXCITE the hell out of you - or throw it away and think of the next thing.

Use the music as a tool to take you into that state. It must be atmospheric downtempo grooves or classical.

Here is one of my personal favourites: Kruder & Dorfmeister (do a search baby)

I actually look forward to going to bed and also getting out of bed when I know this is the first thing I will be doing (if I am on my own, that is).

Do this every day and night for the next 7 days.

……. (to be continued)

So this concludes part one on how to live like a flawless natural.

Next week ill get into some more steps and delve deeper again into it. However you MUST complete the top two before even thinking about next weeks article. Set yourself a challenge… try it for 7 days:

1. Physical Excercise

2. Eat Amazingly

3. Soul-Ritual morning and night.

Enjoy it. It’s going to be super tough at first for you, but I’m really looking forward to accompanying you on the flawless living plan and seeing you on the other side.

nT

PS. I know you have probably heard a lot of this stuff before. But it is those that are going to actually implement this that I am speaking to. If you want to be awesome with women and life in general then this is the way I have found to work and simply, If I can do it, you definitely can!

My housemate Nathy

(note this is unfortunately not nathy)

I’m pretty sure I have the coolest housemates in the world, who you could learn as much from as I have.

One guy, Rion, who I have been best friends with since elementary school, is the real life form of Vincent Chase from the TV show Entourage. Looks exactly like him, but most of all the guy just oozes quality and you can learn a lot from just having a short two minute conversation with him. Because that two minutes you spend talking to him he will actually listen INTENTLY to EVERY - SINGLE - WORD that you say.

representing T

Looks you right in the eye and listens without agenda or anything.
Everyone walks away thinking he is a great dude.

Mothers love him. Girls love him. Guys love him. He owns and we have an absolute rad time together.

Anyway ill talk about Rion another day.

Today I want to talk about Nathy.

Nathy shares a room with his girlfriend and Rion and I are in separate other rooms. We live in this big old house in a very nice Melbourne suburb.
We have a garden with massive shady trees, a pond and fish in it, and birds chirping happily all over the place. All you can ask for really.

Rion told me the story of how Nathy met his girlfriend the other day and I had to recount this with you.

When I was in LA, the two lads were out together at one of the cool nightclubs out here in Melbourne.

They strolled in and grabbed a beer. Soaking up the fun of another exciting night out.

SIDE MENTAL NOTE: When you go out, you should not have a care or stress in the world. This is your FUN.
This is not your scan the nightclub in a stupid hazy hope that you will get girls. Sure, you can check out the talent around the place.
But LET YOUR NIGHT HAPPEN. Its inevitable that you will end up with girls - thats just how it goes.
So no need to stress, relax and enjoy your night! Do not allow yourself to go into “chode mode”.

The whole wooo! thing in “flawless natural” came from us guys walking into a venue and just soaking it up. Looking at all the glory girls swirling around. You cannot help but WOOO!

Anyway Rion and Nathy are doing their thing and suddenly Nathy is LOVESTRUCK by a girl through the crowd. He looks across and says to Rion “I like her, a lot”.

There was something about her that struck Nathy’s chord. “Im going to go tell her” he says to Rion with a cheeky grin. Rion laughs. This is nothing out of the ordinary. He enjoys the show.

Nathy walks right up to this girl and taps her on the shoulder. She and all her friends stop the conversation and turn to him wondering what he is going to say.

With a self assured grin, as cool, calm and sincere as anything - he looks her right in the eye, ignoring the other girls and announces “I like you.”

The way he said it. The total disregard for anything else in the world apart from the fact that he is a man that is SURE OF HIMSELF, made her blush and instantly attracted to him.

They spent a fun night together with her friends and Rion. A month later they move in to this very house I now reside.
Happy as can be.

When Nathy simply walked up and said “I like you”. The weight of these words was so heavy. Because he is a man that is sure of himself.

“I like you.” Coming from a place of total abundance. It must have felt like the biggest compliment in the world to her.

What I really want you to think about this week is how much weight do your words hold when talking to a woman?
How much weight do your words hold in general?
Do you live by what you speak?

Three simple words were worth A LOT more to her than a whole night of conversation.
WHY?

This is being a sexworthy man.

Hit me up with some comments and let me know your hearing me !

Until next week.

nT