You are not going to believe what I have in store for you Flawless Natural livers.
This is something that our RSD homeboy Ryan and I have been discussing at length lately and I decided it was time to be unleashed for you to think about as well.
This is HIGH LEVEL FLAWLESS NATURAL SKILLSET stuff here. The highest level concept of the FN living plan. To be honest I’m not sure if you can handle it yet… if you truly understand what I am teaching today then you and I are very much alike.
This is one of my favorite and probably one of the most important concepts you will need to understand if you want abundant success in dating beautiful women for the rest of your life.
Take a journey with me for a moment…
You walk into a trendy upscale bar in midtown Manhattan.
As you enter you feel the room glowing with warmth and excitement of a brilliant evening.
There are more gorgeous women in here than you could count. To your left is a line of groups all standing against the wall with their cocktails and drinks. The girls are in stunning flowing dresses as it is summer and the finest of women all show as much skin as they can, in a classy way.
To your right is the amazing cocktail bar with well dressed bartenders politely and skillfully pouring multiple colored liquids into tall glasses. Girls are sitting with their men along this bar, the glisten in their eye as they get more tipsy and anticipate the fun night to come.
The place is buzzing. A DJ spins some deep urban upbeat sounds with smooth vocal snips that echo across the room.
People turn to you as they naturally do when somebody new enters the room. An amazing brunette at the bar looks you right in the eye just as you look left at a slim attractive blonde who seems to be staring at you - she looks away sharply as soon as you notice her glance.
What happens next is not determined by how many women you have had in the past. It is not determined by the way you are dressed or how you physically look. It is not determined by your job or how much money you have. It is not determined by the problems or multiple troubles that you have in your life. It is not determined upon what state you are in.
What happens next is verifiably determined by one measurable item only: Your SOUL BASELINE LEVEL or “SBL”.
Each an every man on this planet has something that has been pretty much immeasurable and indescribable: The SOUL.
The soul is why Lance Armstrong got back on the bike. The soul is why Michael Jordan or Bruce Lee fought against everyone around them to drive for what they believed in. The soul is what you see in Brad Pitt’s eyes when he is playing one of his many amazing characters.
Every man on this planet has one and can feed, nurture and encourage it to make anything and everything happen.
It can either be something that you feel within every fiber of your being every single day or something that is a vague feeling in the background that you suppress with the many forms of societies escapism that is on offer 24/7 (television, junk food, petty bullshit).
Girls are hyper sensitive to changes in a man’s soul. They read it like a book when they see you walk in the room. It is as real as the metabolic physical rate. It beats like a heart for all the world to feel and hear when you are around.
You see it too. You know when somebody is smiling at you from their soul, or simply just giving you a smile with nothing behind it.
You know when a girl opens up and is letting her soul pour out for only you to take, or when she is simply just saying words like “I love you” for the sake of it.
The soul is what makes being alive on this planet so damn real and amazing. To put it simply, the soul is the life of the world and how it moves forward. This is why having soul is the single most attractive thing to a woman, or anybody, that any man can possess.
The times where I have pulled off amazing feats of pickup in the club are when my soul is at the forefront. You can see it in my eyes in the flawless natural. I am not saying that I am any better than anyone, in fact, I am still in soul development mode right now and I want you to come along with me!
It is now time for you to understand and develop your own soul.
The way I understand it, is that your individual soul is made up of things that you, in the most purest form, do for yourself.
Now don’t take the above line lightly. It sounds so simple and you may think you do a lot for yourself, when in face the truth is otherwise.
The soul is fed and grows upon things that you do, in the most purest form, for yourself.
Think about the last time you did something physical. Running, Riding, Gym. Hopefully it wasn’t too long ago!
What were the reasons that you did that physical activity?
Was it to look awesome for the ladies? To look good for other people? To meet expectations on what is good looking? Did you do it because you see other people who you want to be and then try to copy them or be like them?
OR Did you do it because it makes you feel alive on this earth? Did you do it because it purely makes you feel awesome and powerful afterward? Did you do it because you want to have increased energy to do all the amazing things that YOU want to do?
Does Brad pitt or Mark Wahlberg need to work out? They are married with kids so they don’t get up early and hit it hard every morning if it is for the ladies. I read a quote from Mark on going to the gym a while ago and he said simply “I just get up early, eat my egg whites, and hit the gym hard. I JUST GET IT DONE…”
This is done purely for himself and not a single other person on the planet. Is he selfish? Yes. Is selfishness a good thing? you decide.
Doing things absolutely for your own self and nobody else is a form of selfishness that feeds your own soul. On a surface level it makes you UNREACTIVE to the whims of others.
Some examples are going off and meditating in a garden for 20mins. Reading a book. Eating an amazingly healthy meal. Playing golf.
It can also mean choosing something way outside your comfort zone and totally different to what people would think or expect of you, like joining a weekly adventure sport such as rock climbing. The whole reason you are reading this post means you are doing something to for yourself, you are getting good with girls and that is a selfish thing too. GO YOU!
For more information or amazing soul food visit any Ayn Rand novel: Atlas Shrugged, Anthem and Fountainhead are amazing.
So, back to the “SBL” and how it works.
Back to our story in the midtown Manhattan bar… A couple of girls have looked at you. They see a quality in you that is not in the other men. They see fire in your eyes. They feel a massive presence in you. People turn and glance at you for just that little bit longer than a normal person. They wonder what it is about you. They can’t put their finger on it but you are strangely alluring. “What-is-it-about-him?” they think to themselves.
You are totally unreactive and are so comfortable in your own skin you are almost laughing to yourself at how carefree and present you are.
This is because your SBL is high. You have been at the gym and riding a bike all week. You worked hard to afford the cool threads that you just bought to roll out in. You take care of your grooming precisely and are excited about the adventures that you could provide do a woman who is daring to go with you. For a girl to reject you would almost be ridiculous at this point. Silly them. Oh well, on to the next lucky one. It is inevitable that I go home with a beautiful girl tonight. Everything is in its right place.
Get the picture?
So this week we are focusing on REGULAR ACTIVITIES to increase your SOUL BASELINE LEVEL.
These are things that you MUST DO every DAY or WEEK to make sure you are ON POINT and FEELING GOOD.
I want you to post or write down three things, that if done every week you will be happy that you completed.
One must be PHYSICAL. The rest can be anything you want them to be.
Next week I share some of the personal things I do to raise my own SBL.
Have a great week, and let your SOUL GLOW he he he.