Well hello there,
Another lovely Monday has rolled around and that means its another post from the world of T.
You will really enjoy this weeks installation, it is something extremely personal. I took a chance to browse through the many emails and requests and pulled out a couple of questions that you might be interested to find out some of the secret behind the scene stuff that goes on.
I have recieved a number of emails that are asking me to go into details of my personal life and routine. So I am going to give you the complete picture on a week in the life of Tim and how YOU can live amazingly too.
You see, what you actually do with your days, how you think and interact with your world is one of the core principles of being a flawless natural. Ultimately its this that will make you have the x-factor that women desire.
So this is the first in the series on how to live like a flawless natural.
Just to kick this off, one person who emailed me wanted to know more about what I do in my spare time, ending the email with “(I’m) just interested to know more about Tim: the regular guy!”.
First of all, I believe it is VERY dangerous to consider yourself a regular guy.
I tried it for a while. It doesn’t work. It doesn’t make you happy at all.
When you were a kid I am sure that you thought you were destined for greatness.
There was something inside of you that told you “You will do something amazing”.
Everyone I have ever spoken to confirms this.
Then what happens? Somewhere along the line you fall into regular guy mode.
You watch TV and get ideas of what a guy should look like and the things he should be doing.
You follow the advice of your peers and parents on the direction of your life, aiming to please them.
Thinking “once I do this job or that course I will be happy, and others will be too”.
You think “why should I deserve all the things I desire deep down anyway?”.
You think “there are much smarter, more attractive, intelligent, cooler people out there”.
You start to create your role in society as something mediocre all the while pushing away that pure voice that is inside, the voice that you used to hear in your head when you were a kid.
You tell yourself there is no point in going to all this effort to reach my physical, mental and emotional potential because you will probably not achieve it anyway.
You might immerse yourself in spirituality and other non-earthly things as a means of escapism from what is glaring you in the face.
Can you relate to any of this?
How do I know all of that?
Because I have battled with all of those headspaces too. Hell, when I told my father that I was going to fly to Los Angeles and start teaching men to be successful with women, he said “What?! No! This isn’t some fag thing is it?”.
To this day he still tells me to go back to corporate life. Also judging by my track record and the trouble I have been in for bringing too many girls into the house I don’t think he remotely believes I am homosexual either.
By the way I still think corporate life is really great for a lot of men, if they have looked into their soul and confirmed that this is what they really want.
Anyway back to the point.
You see, one day I realized that you will always find somebody that is smarter, more attractive, cooler, more intelligent than you. To focus on this, and other people and what they have, is very destructive to your soul.
Armed with this knowledge six years ago I decided to lie down late at night, put some deep chillout music on, and come up with an elaborate fantasy life for my future.
I really lived it. I looked at the things I wanted. I imagined myself in New York and traveling all over the place. It moved my soul. It made me feel amazing. Something deep inside went “yes, this is for you”.
Now to a young kid in a small country town in Australia, to have such thoughts and ambition is totally absurd.
Maybe you are in the same situation?
The most difficult (yet strangely easy) question you will ever answer:
What does your soul want for you?
Late at night. When everything is quiet and you are not asleep, what does your soul tell you?
Somewhere in there, is that same voice you had when you were a kid. It is there. If you cannot hear it you are caught up in a haze.
Everyone’s soul is different and living the vision it has for you is what it definitely means to be a flawless natural.
Tips for getting back in touch with the soul (step 1):
1. Absolutely maintain the best physical shape you possibly can. That means as guys, its 4 days a week in the gym or running or some form of hard physical exertion. It also means eating a super balanced and nutritious diet.
This is NO JOKE. Your soul cannot communicate to your mind if all you do is eat and live in MUCK.
When you are eating well and working out regularly there are no excuses to give yourself.
You are doing the best you possibly can. Therefore you will have massive self respect, not to mention massive energy and looking healthy.
Self-respect and the soul go hand in hand.
The physical is the base for everything else. Handle this FIRST.
If you do not have a gym membership or eat rubbish get this handled TOMORROW.
You must do 4 days a week physical excercise and eat healthy EVERY DAY.
NOTE: Your mind will rationalize away trying to do this. Don’t let it. Just GO!
2. Implement a nightly and morning soul-ritual.
Just before you go to sleep, put on some downtempo chillout or classical music. Then close your eyes and LIVE in a world you want to live. Where you are totally owning it and doing the things you have always wanted. Do the same in the morning, dedicate 20 minutes before breakfast to looking at your visionboard.
When pondering things or adding stuff to your visionboard make sure it really MOVES you.
Like you get a rush of excitement as you think of the potential and possibility.
It must EXCITE the hell out of you - or throw it away and think of the next thing.
Use the music as a tool to take you into that state. It must be atmospheric downtempo grooves or classical.
Here is one of my personal favourites: Kruder & Dorfmeister (do a search baby)
I actually look forward to going to bed and also getting out of bed when I know this is the first thing I will be doing (if I am on my own, that is).
Do this every day and night for the next 7 days.
……. (to be continued)
So this concludes part one on how to live like a flawless natural.
Next week ill get into some more steps and delve deeper again into it. However you MUST complete the top two before even thinking about next weeks article. Set yourself a challenge… try it for 7 days:
1. Physical Excercise
2. Eat Amazingly
3. Soul-Ritual morning and night.
Enjoy it. It’s going to be super tough at first for you, but I’m really looking forward to accompanying you on the flawless living plan and seeing you on the other side.
PS. I know you have probably heard a lot of this stuff before. But it is those that are going to actually implement this that I am speaking to. If you want to be awesome with women and life in general then this is the way I have found to work and simply, If I can do it, you definitely can!