My housemate Nathy

(note this is unfortunately not nathy)
I’m pretty sure I have the coolest housemates in the world, who you could learn as much from as I have.
One guy, Rion, who I have been best friends with since elementary school, is the real life form of Vincent Chase from the TV show Entourage. Looks exactly like him, but most of all the guy just oozes quality and you can learn a lot from just having a short two minute conversation with him. Because that two minutes you spend talking to him he will actually listen INTENTLY to EVERY - SINGLE - WORD that you say.

representing T
Looks you right in the eye and listens without agenda or anything.
Everyone walks away thinking he is a great dude.
Mothers love him. Girls love him. Guys love him. He owns and we have an absolute rad time together.
Anyway ill talk about Rion another day.
Today I want to talk about Nathy.
Nathy shares a room with his girlfriend and Rion and I are in separate other rooms. We live in this big old house in a very nice Melbourne suburb.
We have a garden with massive shady trees, a pond and fish in it, and birds chirping happily all over the place. All you can ask for really.
Rion told me the story of how Nathy met his girlfriend the other day and I had to recount this with you.
When I was in LA, the two lads were out together at one of the cool nightclubs out here in Melbourne.
They strolled in and grabbed a beer. Soaking up the fun of another exciting night out.
SIDE MENTAL NOTE: When you go out, you should not have a care or stress in the world. This is your FUN.
This is not your scan the nightclub in a stupid hazy hope that you will get girls. Sure, you can check out the talent around the place.
But LET YOUR NIGHT HAPPEN. Its inevitable that you will end up with girls - thats just how it goes.
So no need to stress, relax and enjoy your night! Do not allow yourself to go into “chode mode”.

The whole wooo! thing in “flawless natural” came from us guys walking into a venue and just soaking it up. Looking at all the glory girls swirling around. You cannot help but WOOO!
Anyway Rion and Nathy are doing their thing and suddenly Nathy is LOVESTRUCK by a girl through the crowd. He looks across and says to Rion “I like her, a lot”.
There was something about her that struck Nathy’s chord. “Im going to go tell her” he says to Rion with a cheeky grin. Rion laughs. This is nothing out of the ordinary. He enjoys the show.
Nathy walks right up to this girl and taps her on the shoulder. She and all her friends stop the conversation and turn to him wondering what he is going to say.
With a self assured grin, as cool, calm and sincere as anything - he looks her right in the eye, ignoring the other girls and announces “I like you.”
The way he said it. The total disregard for anything else in the world apart from the fact that he is a man that is SURE OF HIMSELF, made her blush and instantly attracted to him.

They spent a fun night together with her friends and Rion. A month later they move in to this very house I now reside.
Happy as can be.
When Nathy simply walked up and said “I like you”. The weight of these words was so heavy. Because he is a man that is sure of himself.
“I like you.” Coming from a place of total abundance. It must have felt like the biggest compliment in the world to her.
What I really want you to think about this week is how much weight do your words hold when talking to a woman?
How much weight do your words hold in general?
Do you live by what you speak?
Three simple words were worth A LOT more to her than a whole night of conversation.
WHY?
This is being a sexworthy man.
Hit me up with some comments and let me know your hearing me !
Until next week.
nT















